About last night

soooo russ and I had an argument again about something petty. but it
makes me think
Can I really be with someone for the next 50 years who won't apologize
to me, who can't see when they have done something wrong, and who won't
talk to me when I'm upset?
Does that sound stupid?
I love him to pieces, but I can't be a happy person 100% of the time. And I finally
got it in my little head last night that he's not going to change one
bit. Even for me. Even if it's just saying he's sorry. He won't do
it.

But here's what the argument was about.
I took the laundry downstairs and put it on the floor to get it out of
the bathroom
So he does the laundry. But gets tired
So instead of saying...Honey I'm tired and my back hurts, Can you get
the laundry out of the dryer?
He says, You know I washed your laundry. And I put your laundry in the
dryer. You should get your laundry out.
WHAT? I never asked anyone to do anything for me. Don't make me feel
like you're doing me a favor.
so I stomp downstairs and finish the laundry.
But then I do really feel bad and tell him...Honey, I'm sorry that you
thought you had to do the laundry. I didn't mean to do that.
To which he replies....Well, I'm sorry I expect too much.
So I try to explain that it wasn't what he asked, it was how he asked.
And you know..he never got it. O_O